I believe strongly in equal rights and pursuit of our own happiness, but I also believe in tact and not infringing upon the happiness of others. The following pretty much sums up the views I've had for quite a long time now.
Please note that this video does contain at least one scene which might not be for the faint of heart.
And while this video does specifically refer to the GLBT community, what the narrator is saying can easily apply to other groups, movements and subcultures. I'm sure you can think of at least one or two.
My point? Be tactful. Consider how your actions affect others who assume the same labels you do. Be true to yourself and try your best to be happy, but please, please, understand that your actions have consequences. Be respectful to others, and respectful to yourself.