You can give up, or you can keep trying.
You can worry, or smile and laugh at little things.
You can take the main street, or a road less traveled.
You can cry with disappointment, or find joy in the moment.
You can judge others, or you can take a deep long look at yourself.
Most people live their lives thinking selfishly, only of their own wants and needs and desires. Most people refuse to find happiness in the moment; instead they focus upon the negative things: ways to blame, ways to hate, ways to be disappointed. Most people refuse to realize that, so very often, what they hate about others is merely a reflection of what they hate about themselves.
I'm not saying: just change your mind. I know it's not always that simple.
All I'm saying is this: keep trying, keep looking, keep learning.
You can be free.